Funeral Director Marketing That Actually Gets Done: A Simple Monthly Plan (Even If You’re Busy)
- Debbie Avens

- 2 days ago
- 4 min read
If you’re an independent funeral director, you don’t need another long list of “marketing ideas”.
What you need is a plan that actually happens.
Because the truth is, marketing rarely fails due to lack of knowledge. It fails because it gets squeezed out by the day-to-day reality of caring for families and running a business. And when marketing slips for long enough, the phone can start ringing less, slowly and quietly.
This blog is the practical “how” to go with the earlier posts in this series. It’s a simple monthly plan you can put in the diary, so your visibility and trust keep building without marketing taking over your life.
If you’d like monthly marketing tips written specifically for independent funeral directors, you can sign up here:
If you missed the earlier blogs in the series, here they are:
Why a “monthly plan” works better than trying to do marketing ad hoc
Most funeral directors don’t have a marketing department. Marketing sits alongside everything else.
So if marketing is only done when you “get a minute”, it becomes:
Inconsistent
Reactive
Easy to postpone
A monthly funeral director marketing plan works because it creates a rhythm. It protects time. It reduces decision fatigue. And it gives you a way to measure progress.
The goal: cover the two types of marketing every month
From Blog 1, remember the two types of marketing you need working together:
Search marketing: being visible when a family needs you
Brand awareness: being known and trusted before you’re needed
This plan covers both, plus the “bridge” that makes families choose you: online reviews.

The simple monthly marketing plan (for independent funeral directors)
Step 1 (Month start, 30 minutes): Choose one priority
Pick one priority for the month. Not five.
Examples:
Improve your homepage so it’s clearer and more human
Add or update a “What to do when someone dies” page
Increase online review requests and responses
Build one new community relationship
Refresh photos of the owner/team/premises
Write it down. Put it in the diary. That’s your focus.
Step 2 (Week 1, 60 minutes): Fix one “visibility now” item
This is the work that helps families find you and contact you in the moment.
Choose one:
Make your phone number more prominent on mobile
Add a clear call button on key pages
Improve your contact page (simpler form, clearer next steps)
Add location/service area clarity
Add 2 to 4 reviews to the homepage
Improve page speed basics (compress images, remove heavy elements)
If you only do one thing this month, do this step.
Step 3 (Week 2, 30 minutes): Create one piece of helpful content
This does not need to be complicated. It just needs to be useful and reassuring.
Pick one:
A short post: “What to do when someone dies” (simple steps)
A post introducing the owner/team (people choose people)
A short explanation: “What happens when you call us”
A community post: local involvement, thank you, partnership (with permission)
A myth-buster: “Do I need to decide everything immediately?”
Where to use it:
Post it on your social media
Add it to your website as an FAQ or short blog
Save it for your email newsletter
The goal is to build familiarity and trust over time.
Step 4 (Week 3, 30 minutes): Do one community touchpoint
This is the “trust over time” work.
Choose one:
Visit a care home or hospice contact
Attend one local business/community group
Follow up with a celebrant/clergy connection
Support a local cause in a small, consistent way
Offer a short practical talk or resource to a local group
Then do one simple follow-up:
Share a calm, respectful post about it (no sales pitch). This is how community presence becomes visible.
Step 5 (Week 4, 20 minutes): Reviews routine
Reviews are one of the strongest trust and visibility drivers for independent funeral directors.
Make it a routine:
Send review requests to the families you can appropriately ask (based on your process)
Follow up once, politely
Respond to new reviews (where appropriate)
Add one strong review to your website
Consistency matters more than volume.
Step 6 (Month end, 15 minutes): Measure what matters
You don’t need complicated analytics. Check:
Calls: are they increasing, and are they good quality?
Directions requests: are they up?
Reviews: did you gain any this month?
Visibility: are you appearing more often in local search?
Anecdotal signals: are people saying “I’ve seen you online” or “I’ve heard of you”?
Then choose next month’s priority based on what’s slipping.
Two versions of this plan (choose what fits your capacity)
The “minimum viable” version (about 2 hours per month)
1 visibility fix (60 mins)
1 content post (30 mins)
1 review routine (20 mins)
1 quick check-in (10 mins)
The “steady growth” version (about 2 hours per week)
1 visibility fix or improvement task weekly
1 content post weekly
1 community touchpoint monthly
reviews weekly
Both work. The difference is speed and competitiveness.
The key: put it in the diary like any other essential task
If you want marketing to happen, it needs a protected slot.
A simple approach:
Choose a set time each week (for example, Tuesday 8:30–9:00)
Name it something practical: “Visibility and reviews”
Keep it even when you’re busy, because that’s when it matters most
If you want monthly tips written specifically for independent funeral directors, sign up here:
And if you’d like help turning this into a clear plan for your business, you can also book a Funeral Marketing Power Hour.




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